She is right there 13 feet away from you, but it feels like she is living in Zimbabwe.
You will never get her… right?
So many guys I talk to about dating are completely stuck in a very linear, There-Is-Only-One-Way-type mindset.
It makes sense too, because that is whatever every other dating advice guy is telling you. Dating experts say, “If you want to date a beautiful girl, then you have to go approach like 658 women every day.” Approach, approach, approach is on every guy’s mind.
Approaching girls seems like the only way, right?
But there is an easier way.
How smart guys become a girl magnet…
Smart guys create a life where women approach them.
What if hot, sexy women were coming up to you every day and introducing themselves? What if you regularly were approached by women, who wanted you?
Yo, my friend! You don’t need to be Brad Pitt or George Clooney (or even Justin Bieber) to make this happen.
Any broke dude living in his Mom’s basement can make this happen starting today. This post is for guy’s who realize that working HARDER isn’t as effective as being SMARTER.
Here are 3 ways you can become a Girl Magnet… starting today:
1. Get IN The Friend Zone.
Guys who don’t need to approach women have a lot of girl FRIENDS.
These guys hang out with girls all the time and they understand how women communicate. The more you hang out with women, the more you get how women think.
All your girl friends know other girls too and pretty soon you have an entire network of attractive girl acquaintances. Plus, you are IN with attractive girls, so other girls see you as more attractive. Women are very social creatures like that.
Common scenario: You are sitting in a café checking your email and sipping a latte. Then a girl approaches you and says, “Hey, you are friends with Catherine, right?”
She feels comfortable coming up and talking to you, because you are connected by a female friend. You can then continue the conversation from there.
Quick Action: Start making close girl friends one by one.
Reach out to one girl acquaintance the next time you see her. Get really interested in what she is doing with her life. Get excited for her, no matter what she is working on.
2. Pursue Your Passion:
Girls go crazy for guys who are passionate, curious, and going after their dreams. I’m talking crazy.
If you can talk about how you want to travel the world, create a world-changing business, or work on a stopping hunger, then you are a HOT guy.
Most guys think they need to have achieved their dreams and be driving a Porshe to attract girls… WRONG! You just need to be taking steps toward your dream. You can’t be all talk… any girl will see through that quickly.
You need to be taking daily action towards your dreams.
Quick Action: Do one thing every day that helps you get closer to your dreams… even if it is small. Read a chapter in an inspirational book, enroll in a course, subscribe to a blog, or contact a potential mentor. Do one thing every day.
3. Talk To Everyone.
Be a social guy, who chats with everyone you meet.
Talk to the gas station clerk, learn about the barista at your local coffee shop, and joke with your waitress.
Here’s why this works:
-Practice is the only way to improve your social skills. The more you practice on people you could care less about, the better you will be able to make that hot French model’s jaw drop and want you.
-Everyone see’s you as a social leader. Women are attracted to leaders and when she see’s you talking to people in a café or at a party, she is more likely to say hello. Women are really social creatures and they get really hot for guys who understand socializing.
Quick Action: Talk to someone right now.
Seriously… just close your computer and go have a simple conversation with ANYONE. Go ask someone for the time, or what the weather is supposed to be, or if you are home alone, send an email to someone you haven’t talked to in awhile.